Initiating Kinky Sex With Your Partner

Are you bored of the same sex every time with your partner? Do you want to spice up your sex life and make it feel more desirable each time you have sex with your partner? Well, I’ve got you! I’m pretty sure all of us have seen or read Fifty Shades of Grey and we’ve want to at least try some of the kinky sex ideas from it. There are numerous ways to shake things up if you want to.

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Here is a list of some of the best kinky sex ideas to try, ranging from the mild to the wild.

  1. Try taking it to a mirror
  • When things get heated, whisper in your partner’s ear how sexy they are and suggest you get a better view. Bring them to a mirror and lean in front of it, allowing them to enter from behind you or reach around to stimulate your clitoris. You’ll get to watch them have fun while also getting a view of you from the back and front. It’s also entertaining to place a mirror next to your bed and watch yourself put it on from various angles.

 

  1. Talk dirty with your partner
  • Increase the intensity of your dirty talk by describing your feelings, giving gentle encouraging directions, and telling them what you intend to do to them before you do it. You might also discover that whispering about how a touch feels or being direct about what you want enhances what you’re feeling in the moment.

 

  1. Get icy, baby!
  • We’re not referring to the old adage of putting an ice cube in your mouth before having oral sex. However, if that’s what you’re looking for, go for it!  Ice cubes are the most affordable sex toy available, and are ideal for trailing over your partner’s body when things get steamy for a chillingly good sensation.

 

  1. Try tying up your partner
  • Perhaps you’ve abandoned the idea of bondage because the thought of purchasing handcuffs or other restraints is too terrifying for you. If that’s the case, try something more subtle, such as a tie or scarf. Wrap it around their wrists, secure them to a chair, and then fall on them. If you want to play a more submissive role, ask your partner if they want to tie you to the headboard and have their way with you. We’re guessing you’ll get a resounding yes.

 

  1. Use a blindfold
  • You can use the same tie as a blindfold, shielding your partner’s eyes from your next moves or blindfolding yourself while he or she goes to town on your body. When you block one sense, your body amplifies the others. Touch will feel extra electric and unexpected.

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  1. Nibble and bite
  • During sex, nibbling and biting is a sign of passion. It’s a little naughty and a lot hot, the ideal way to show off your sexual prowess. While you’re making out, gently nibble on your partner’s lip to see if they’re okay with a little teeth. In between sensual open-mouth kisses on their skin, you can also gently drag your teeth over your partner’s shoulders.

 

  1. Try ultra relaxing foreplay
  • Naked massage is two words for you. We could all use some extra TLC in these stressful times, so give your partner a sensual massage. You only need the lotion you already have by your bedside for this and be prepared for things to heat up quickly.

 

  1. Dress up kinkily
  • If you spend your days in sweatpants, dressing up right before you go naked can help you get in the mood. Why not try on a uniform? Dressing up as a doctor or a French maid could be a fun experiment if you’re stuck in a rut.

 

  1. Get spanky
  • Spanking can be painful. That being said, it’s best not to startle your partner and ruin the moment with a whip out of nowhere. Give them a light smack on the buttocks with an open palm the next time you’re having that kind of passionate, animalistic sex. If they seem interested, spank them a little harder. Arousal has been shown in studies to increase our pain threshold, so go for it!

 

  1. Try pulling the hair
  • Don’t dismiss the allure of a firm tug on your partner’s hair. Run your fingers through their hair and grab them the next time they come down on you. Give it a gentle tug to see how they react. To make it feel good rather than hurt, grab a larger handful of hair.

 

  1. Let your partner enjoy watching you masturbate
  • This takes some guts, but putting on a show by letting your significant other watch you enjoy yourself can be extremely empowering. Look them in the eyes while you do it, and they’ll be begging you to let them take over in no time.

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  1. Experiment with role play
  • There’s a reason role play is one of the most popular sex fantasies: it allows you to let loose and act in ways you wouldn’t normally act, which is incredibly liberating. Role play is a harmless way to live out a fantasy and get kinky, whether it’s between a boss and a secretary, a doctor and a patient, a student and a professor, or anything else.

 

  1. Play with sex toys
  • Stock up on naughty goodies at a sex shop or online sex store. There are plenty of options to spice things up and get your freak on, from edible panties to vibrators. Not sure where to begin without being bombarded with creepy advertisements? I’ve got you covered. Click here on https://secretcherry.co/product-category/vibrators/ to purchase the best sex toys for you and your partner.

 

  1. Try new sex positions
  • Even when it comes to sex positions, we all fall into routines. Stir things up. Do you require some inspiration? We’ve got plenty of ideas for creative sex positions.

 

  1. Watch porn together
  • If you enjoy porn, why not watch it with your partner? Your focus will most likely shift to each other rather than the screen, and the moans from the background will keep the mood ultra sexy.